Patience is the key to relief

One day over the Prophet, peace be upon him on the tomb, and saw a woman sitting next to him, crying on her son who died, he said to her Prophet, peace be upon him: (Fear Allah and be patient). The woman said: Here's me, you did not pour Bmuseibta.
He turned to the Prophet peace be upon him, the woman did not know it, the people said to her: It Messenger of Allah upon him, women hurried to the house of the Prophet, peace be upon him apologize to him, and says: Did not know you. He told her the Prophet, peace be upon him: (but patience when the first shock) [agreed]. Any man must be patient at the beginning of the catastrophe.
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Aslam Ammar bin Yasir and his father, Yasser and his mother toxicity - God bless them - and learned infidels Baslamanm, Vokhdhuhm all, and remained tortured severe punishment, and when he passed them the Prophet peace be upon him, said to them: (Sabra Al Yasser! The your time with Paradise)
[Ruling]. And Yasser Al patience, and bore their afflictions of agony, until the father died and the mother of the severity of punishment, and son then cited in one of the battles; to be all of the former to heaven, Aldharben finest examples of patience and bear harm.
What is patience?
Patience is committed to human what God ordered him fully Faadi, and avoid forbidden him, and to accept the same satisfied plights they misfortunes and hardships, Muslim and beautifying patient, and bear hardships, nor ... raises, not grieve for the ills of age and setbacks. God says: {O you who believe, seek help with patience and prayer that God is with the patient [Baqarah: 153].
Patience to create the prophets:
Hit the prophets of God - prayers upon them - the finest examples of patience and bear harm to the call to God, may carry the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him hardships in order to spread Islam, and people were Quraish reject his call for Islam and Esponh, and no longer respond to him, and it was neighbors of the idolaters offend him and throwing harm in front of his home, there is no corresponding only beautiful patience. Says Abdullah bin Masood - may Allah be pleased with him - for patience Prophet peace be upon him and carry it hurt: (if I see the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him tells (like) a prophet of prophets - peace and blessings be on them - beating his people Vadmoh (shot him and injured him), he wiped the blood from his face and say: Oh God, forgive nationalist they do not know) [agreed].
The description of God - the Almighty - a lot of prophets patience, God said: Ismail and Idris Kifl all of the patient. And admitted them to Our mercy They righteous [Prophets: 85-86].
God said: {patient as the patience Ulloa determination of the Apostles} [Ahqaf: 35]. The Oulu determination of the Apostles were: Noah, Abraham, Moses, and Jesus, and Mohammed - they of God and prayers -.
And he says: I have lied to the messengers before thee Vsberoa lied and hurt in my path even overtook our victory} [cattle: 34].
He says Nabih Ayoub: {I found it Sabra Yes slave he ever}
[P: 44], it was Ayub - peace be upon him - a man of many money and parents, Fabtlah God and test it in all, being wounded diseases, remained inherent in the sickbed many years, and has wealth and children, leaving him only his wife, who stood beside him patiently calculated faithful him.
The Ayoub example a great patience, it was believed that it eliminate God, remained tongue saying, and his heart chakra, ordered him God that hits the ground with his foot and he did, he pulled his God appointed cold water, and ordered him to take a bath and drink them, and he did, took away with him the pain and harm and disease, and replaced him health and beauty and a lot of money, and offset by the children of good reward him for his patience, he says: {And We gave him his family and the same with them mercy from Us and a reminder for men of understanding} [p: 43].
Virtue of patience:
Allah has prepared for the patient great reward and forgiveness wide, the Almighty says: {and preached the patient. Who, when afflicted with calamity, say to God and to Him we return. Saabiroon from their Lord, and mercy, and those are the rightly guided [Baqarah: 155-157]. He says: {but those who are patient shall receive their reward without account} [Cliques: 10].
He says peace be upon him: (I give a anything better than patience)
[Agreed]. He says peace be upon him: (what befalls a Muslim monument (fatigue) and pour the (disease), nor will they, grief or harm or distress even a thorn that pricks him, but Allaah will expiate his sins) [agreed].
Types of patience:
Patience of many kinds, including: obedience patience, and patience from sin, and patience on the disease, and the patience to calamities, poverty and patience, and patience on the harm
People .. Etc..
Patience on obedience: Muslim should stand for the acts of worship; because they require effort and determination to be performed in a timely fashion the best possible manner, and maintain. Says God - the Almighty - to the Prophet peace be upon him: {And be patient yourself with those who call on their Lord morning and evening, seeking his face} [Cave: 28]. The Almighty says: {and ordered the family to pray and thy [Taha: 132].
Patience for sin: Muslim resist temptations that adorn his sin, and this requires great patience, and a strong will, says Messenger of Allah upon him: (best of immigrants abandoned what God forbids it, and best of Jihad labored himself in
God - the Almighty -) [Tabarani].
Patience on the disease: If patience Muslim disease ابتلاه God, rewarded him be upon the best penalty, said peace be upon him: (from injured بمصيبة in wealth or his body, and concealed did Achkea to people, it really was a God to forgive him).
[Tabarani].
And patience Muslim cause illness in entering paradise, Mrs or exhale - God bless them - were sick with epilepsy, I asked the Prophet, peace be upon him that calls God her recovery. Prophet said to her, peace be upon him: (If you wish patient Paradise will be yours, and if you wish I asked God to heal). Chose to be patient on her illness and her paradise in the afterlife. [Agreed]. The Almighty says in the Hadith Qudsi: (if plagued Abdi Bhabibtah (eyes) and is patient, offset them Paradise) [Bukhari].
Patience calamities: Muslim patient is injured in his wealth or himself or
His family. The Prophet peace be upon him: (God says: I have to Abdi insured penalty if caught descriptive of the people of this world, then the only Ahtsabh Paradise) [Bukhari]. The passed Oarabah some people, and found them screaming, she said: What is this? She was told: Matt them human. She said: What I see them only from their Lord, crying out, and His decree Itbrmon (Narrow), and reward like (away).
Imam Ali said: The patient was you pen and you paid (you pay and reward), but Gravely was you pen and you Mazur (you have the burden of guilt).
Patience on a tight life: Muslim stand for indigestion life and narrow, not complain unchanged except for the Lord, and has showing a lead themselves and example in the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him and his wives mothers of the believers, Mrs Aisha - God bless them - tell it was going through two months Alcamlan without that kindles in the house Messenger of Allah peace be upon him the fire, and they lived on dates and water. [Agreed].
Patience to harm people: He said, peace be upon him: (Muslim If Mkhalta people and stand for annoyance, is better than a Muslim who does not mix with the people, nor stand for the annoyance) [Tirmidhi].
Patience abomination:
Patience is not the whole commendable, it is sometimes to be distasteful. Hated and patience is the patience that leads to humiliation and shame, or lead to forfeit the religion or wasting some statutes, The patience Mahmood is the scourge of patience and no human can remove it or get rid of it, or the scourge will not harm the Sharia. But if the Muslim able to pay or lifted or when the damage Sharia Vsberh then not be required.
Said God - the Almighty -: {who Tovahm angels oppressors themselves have said Wim you said we were oppressed on the earth Was not the earth of Allah spacious Vthagroa Those ultimate abode is hell an evil destination} [women: 97].
Things that had to be patient:
* Know that the life of this world is transient time.
* Human knowledge that belongs to God - the Almighty - first and foremost, and that his fate to God.
* Uncertainties in good penalty when God, and that the patient awaits the best reward from Allah, the Almighty said: It will certainly bestow those who are patient shall receive their reward what they do best}
Nahl: 96].
* Certainty that Nasrallah recently, and that the reappearance is coming, and that after the narrow capacity, and lining, and that what God promised afflicted of the box must be achieved. He says: with hardship comes ease. With hardship comes ease} [Explanation: 5-6].
* The use of God and resorting to Hama, feels Muslim patient that God is with him, and he sponsored. Said God - the Almighty -: {and patient God is with the patient [Anfal: 46].
* Emulate the people of patience and determination, and meditation in the course of the patient and to ćáÇŢćÉ colors affliction and adversity, especially the prophets and messengers of God.
* Faith as much as God, and that spending inevitably take, and what happened to man was not missed him, and misses him could not have happened to him. He says: What calamity befalls on the earth or in yourselves but in a book by to Nbroha that God
Walking. Agent You Tasoa noticed not rejoice including whatsoever} [iron: 22-23].
Away from the urgency and anger and intensity of grief and distress and despair of the mercy of God; because all of that weakening of patience and perseverance