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Praise be to Allah , and Allah bless him and bless His slave and Messenger Prophet Muhammad and his family . And after: The business controls adjust them so that approval of the project ; and lost when those controls that work was forbidden . How much of a human being overlooked for such controls fell in forbidden in terms of feel or do not feel ! May peace be upon him , said : "It is action that is not us it is " (1) . Among those businesses that do not have to adjust the controls Shara banter that frequently in these later times ; less under control of al-Shara controls . Meaningless banter : Joking annexation Mim : a way intended to Alambasith ; so as not to lead to harm , if it was abuse leads to cynicism . The joke broke Almim : source . The benefits of a joke : First: to be on the way Almlainp and Alambasith and Taattyib risked your companion and bring happiness to his heart . The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him , " and smiling in the face of your brother is charity " (2) . And Abdullah ibn al-Harith may Allah be pleased with him , said : " I never saw anyone more smiles from the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him " (3) . Second: that once the expulsion of unaccompanied and loneliness and the formation of hearts and a manifestation of brotherhood and loyalty. Third, get rid of the fear, anger , anxiety, and other ; If the man joked Enter the same thing of pleasure and entertainment, and still is afraid of it or tempered it. Fourth, get rid of the boredom and tedium , as if Sheikh gives his students a question or a mystery so goes their boredom . Niche prophecy : It was the Prophet peace be upon him calling for leniency in all matters of life , and recreation for the same but out of compassion for the welfare of all aspects of the work of human life; even connects to the Humane qualities Rahim Comrade Creator to His creation . Al-Bukhaari in his Saheeh from the Prophet peace be upon him , said : "God loves the companion animal , and gives the animal is not giving violence and does not confer on what else " (4) . And gentleness : " Lin is a side by word and deed and taking Baloshl , which is against violence " (5) . And extroversion and the banter and the consequent say Lin and smiling and feeling happy , but the manifestation of compassion . Perhaps the most famous was reportedly in jest as reported by Al-Bukhari in the door ( to the people extroversion ) interview : " O Abu Amir nughayr what he did ? " (6) . As well as Abu Dawud in his Sunan from Anas : " A man came to the Prophet peace be upon him said: O Messenger of Allah Ahmlna . Said the Prophet, peace be upon him : " I am Hamilok on Born camel , " he said, and make a bold camel ? Said the Prophet, may Allah bless upon him: " Will give birth to a camel but the camel " (7) . Perhaps Strap peace be upon him his companions after sunrise , and the evidence for what Narrated fishmonger ibn Harb said : " I said to Jabir bin Samra : Did you sit Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him ? Said : Yes, very much ; was not from the place in which he had prayed Fajr until the sun rises ; When the sun rises the . they take and they were talking in a matter of ignorance and Fadgon Itbasm "( . In the novel, Women and Ahmed increase : " Poetry and singing " (9) . It is times after evening prayers , ie: the hills , and the hills : talk before bedtime . He cited recent examples Bukhari mentioned in the door ( the hills in science ) and devised their passport hills in the science of measurement and so on in Sociability with the parents , as well as for the collection of interest with the Muslim Brotherhood and friends . Increasingly mustahabb if interest advocacy advised to make and bring the hearts and increase the love and affection and remove Chagrin and create an atmosphere of love and dating . Lessons from Abu Darda : There is nothing wrong to take comfort in calling not be forbidden to use it for work and performance as required by the human instinct , this Abu Darda may Allah be pleased with him say : "I relax some falsehood ; me to be more active in the right " (10 ) . He says Ibn Taymiyyah commenting on this to say: " As for those hired Balambah beautiful on the right of this good deeds " (11) . Companions and the banter : Cited by Abu Dawood in his Sunan : " for acid Ben Hudayr said, while a man from the Ansar happens folk was the banter Pena them laugh stab the Prophet peace be upon him in the side lute , he said: Osberna ! Said: bow . Said : If you have a T-shirt , not the shirt . raised the Prophet peace be upon him for his shirt and make Vaandhanh accept Khha . said, but I wanted this, O Messenger of God "( 12) . It was months companions Enaiman bin Amr bin Refaah famous its story and Daabath , a Sahabi Jalil : " the Battle of Badr , and it was the ancient companions and Kpraúhm , and when the teaser redundant , with news funny in Daabath .. The Enaiman funny joke " (13) . I was joking sort of expulsion boring and carefree and stay away from worldly concerns and recreation for the same ; it is imperative for a minimum of positions regenerate the energy and bring them to Elan ; Because hearts if Colette Amit ; Rather, it may be a manifestation of manhood in the house and with the wife and kids , if was without extravagance or delinquency , not as some think that manhood at cost and artificiality . And hear the words of some of his companions : " Ibn Umar said : It is like to be a man in his family , such as the boy , and then if it finds punk man . It was Zaid ibn Thabit Avkh of people in his home , when he came out he was a man of men "(14) . So it should not be committed to the creation of a young smiling preacher or outside the home and make heavy-handed and acrimony in his home , is no secret that the reverse is also reprehensible of affectation . Balance demand basis : It was the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him live among the companions and those determined from the likes of Omar ibn al-Khattab may Allah be pleased with him was a man solemn . His humor and those who lay on the scruff of his neck , did not deny the one of them . The original is in denial Poseur in chuckling laugh , or laugh at Grandpa citizen , or over it. " I asked Ibn Umar : Is the companions of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him laugh ? Said : Yes , and faith in their hearts like a mountain . Said Bilal bin Saad : Adrkihm Astdon between symptoms and laughing to each other , if the night were monks "(15 ) . Thus, under the faithful companions of the Prophet's approach without affecting the banter on the seriousness of the work , or on the application of the Sunnah , or to miss interests . There is no doubt that excessive lead to other things contrary to the purposes of the law and the orders of chivalry , and inconsistent with the shrines Semitism , as it may be a good stand-alone , but it leads to evil , and I've said Ali may Allah be pleased with him to clarify this balance and install it : "The best of this nation pattern East : mortal is due to them , and catch up with them the next "(16 ) . Ancestor of the nation : And the approach of the companions walked advances made ​​in jest break ; not find a book is almost devoid of salt and Jokes follower of Sheikh Imam popular God's mercy. It was said to Sufyan bin appointment : hybridity kidding ? He said, even years , but respect those who improve it and puts it Moadah . Has been considered by some scholars banter according to its controls and in his time of virility , default its Jum virility , and stressed that the travel ; In this says Rabia opinion : "The virility qualities : three in urban areas , and three in travel , which in Travel : Fbzl intake , and good manners , and many of the banter is sin "(17) . And the reported revenue officers and advances the nation's long , and all of them on this doctrine in the passport banter according to Shariah . Nawawi said God's mercy: " banter that is forbidden is that which is excessive and persistent ; it inherited laughter and hardening of the heart , and distracts from the remembrance of Allah Almighty , and construed in many times to abuse , and inherited the hatchet , and the fall prestige and dignity . Either from him from these things it is permissible that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him doing "(18 ) . Shariah in jest : 1 - not to be a thing of ridicule religion : This shall be deemed Nullifiers of Islam ; says: ( ( While I asked them to Icoln but we are fighting and playing Say Iballah and verses and His Messenger, you evidences, (65) does not apologize has disbelieved after your belief ) ) [ repentance: 65.66 ] . Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah God's mercy: " mocking God and His signs and His Messenger Kafr atone by its owner after his faith " (19) and makes Imam Ibn Qudamah that rose about Islam. This Kalasthza some Sunan for pranks , and some legal provisions as default dress and beard or praying, fasting , and others. Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with : "Who is guilty of sin entered the fire with a laugh , a cry " (20) . 2 - should not only be honest and do not lie : Especially those accustomed to mention the antics of false intent to make people laugh . Imam Ahmad in his Musnad that the Prophet peace be upon him , said : "Woe to him who tells lies happen to laugh at him folk woe to him " (21) . And saying peace be upon him : "A man may speak a word to laugh out counseled aired in the fire beyond the Pleiades " (22) . There is no doubt that they are caught in the vacuum due to the weakness of faith and away from the remembrance of Allah Almighty , and accompany them to the bad Gelads who decorate them some taboo . 3 - derision of others : That taboo and is one of the major sins , Allah says: ( ( O ye who believe, do not make fun of some of the people hoping to be good for them nor women from women hoping that was not good for them yourselves, do not Telmzoa Tnabzoa titles evil debauchery after the name of faith and does not repent they are the wrong-doers ) ) [rooms : 11 ] . Ibn Kathir says : " what is meant by that and Astsgarhm contempt and ridicule them, and this is forbidden, and is one of the attributes of the hypocrites " (23) . Tabari says : " nudge the hand and the eye and the tongue reference, and insults is not only the tongue " (24) . It was narrated by al in ( people of faith ) that the Prophet peace be upon him , said : "The scoffers people to open the door for someone Paradise said: so , shall come Pkrabh and his chagrin , if came close without him " (25) . It is feared that the mocker return it that trait that makes fun of the other Vicef and plagued by so doing ; for saying peace be upon him : " do not appear to gloat brother Farahmh Abtelic and God " (26) . The Prophet peace be upon him ridicule Muslims , he said: " Muslim brother Muslim does not oppress him nor forsake him nor Ahakrh . Piety is here refers to his chest three times , according to a man who from the evil that degrades his Muslim brother . Every Muslim over a Muslim is forbidden : his blood , and his wealth , and display " (27) . 4 - not terrorizes his brother : It has cited Abu Dawud in his Sunan Ibn Abi Layla said : " Tell us the companions of Muhammad peace be upon him they were walking with the Prophet peace be upon him , slept a man whom Hence, some of them to rope him tied him up ," said the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him : " is not permissible for a Muslim to frighten another Moslem " (28) . As well as saying peace be upon him : "Do not any of you are taking the pleasures of his brother, a player is not serious " (29) . 5 - Do not engage and dragging , exaggeration and prolongation : Should not attend the banter ; seriously because the attributes of believers , and only kidding license and leeway for the continuation of self in the performance of their duty . Some people do not differentiate between the time seriously and play. Thus alerted Ghazali God's mercy , saying : "It is a great mistake to take the banter craft " (30) . 6 - to descend people of their homes : The world is great and their awe and reverence a special place , and because the joke may lead to bad manners with them often should stay away from the banter with them for fear of prejudice under the guidance of the Prophet peace be upon him ; , where he says : "One of the reverence of God honoring a Shibh Muslim " (31) . And the transfer of a peacock from Ibn Abbas may Allah be pleased with him , he said: " Year of the dignified world." As well as the ethics of Islam not flirting with a stranger who does not know the nature of the same wag ; This leads to wag and Asthakar taken lightly ; This is Omar bin Abdul Aziz sent to Adi bin Ertoh says: " Fear joking ; virility it goes ." 7 - not to be foolish with : Said Saad bin Abi Waqas to his son: " sparingly in Mzag ; go over- the pomp , foolish dare you ." 8 - not to be the absence of : Backbiting and gossiping both Tbban ally in the quagmire of sedition , and is devoid of many of this scourge bantered great ; many because of his many dropped him , he does not feel that he originally signed in sin ; because in his claim , but says the person is Qassed joked that. Aa did not define the Prophet peace be upon him for the absence , saying: " mentioning your brother that he dislikes " (32) . The Tirmidhi reported in his Sunan from the Prophet peace be upon him , he said: "If you become a member , the son of Adam are all atone tongue , says: Fear God in us ; for he We are your : the Astqmt Astqmana , though Aaujajt Aauajjjna " (33) . And backbiting types , whether in the body or creation , and others. This and ask God to Aadbna tenet of Islam , and to guide us to the straight path . May Allah bless our Prophet Muhammad and upon his family and companions .